Social Networking Challenge: Don’t Stick to Your Clique!

by Deana Goldasich on November 15, 2009

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Social media has added an entirely new layer of opportunity for sales, relationship-building and knowledge-sharing. In fact, for many of us, it’s radically changing the way we network and do business with others. But, just as the internet gave us all a degree of anonymity, social networking allows us all a degree of laziness.

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The #1 Social Media Mistake in Business

Many of us gravitate to those Twitter users, Facebookers and LinkedIn folks who share our passion, work in our industry and run in the same circles. While that’s a critical part of social networking, it’s equally imperative that we mingle with those outside of our normal network.

I recently attended a client’s national conference where all employees were invited to meet their customers face-to-face. Awesome opportunity, right? The number one rule on the employee guidelines sheet: Don’t Clump! Mingle with new people. Make new connections. Break from your comfort zone.

It’s no different in the online networking world. As awesome as the networking opportunity may be, many of us get stuck in our comfort zone and stick with who we know. The result? You preach to the choir. You have conversations with those who will never challenge you. You don’t take risks.

But…you’re darned comfortable!

The Challenge

This week, find new pockets of interesting business contacts online. Do you have a segment of prospects or customers you rarely connect with? Find them. You may like them! Best of all, you may actually begin building relationships beyond your usual comfortable crowd.

For starters:

  1. Log on to TweepSearch or download TwiPing and enter keywords related to a growing customer segment or an area you’re interested in learning more about. Find some new Tweeps outside of your typical circle!
  2. Look up groups or discussions on LinkedIn and Facebook that are outside of your normal comfort zones. Join the conversation and ask questions.
  3. Find some customer or even distant competitor blogs where you can leave comments on hot topics of the day (be nice!). You’d be surprised at how welcome you’re insight will be!

Tell us what you’ve done lately to bust outside of your online clique…

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  • Thanks so much for your comments, Patrick! Great reading list from Trey! Indeed, I have to give myself this reminder all the time. It's easy to get into a comfort zone of people who share your own interests and talents. But, it's better for business to seek out pockets of people who need our expertise. Such common sense, but social media makes it easy to get clique-ey! Another tool that has recently made it easier to find relevant folks is TwiPing. I've now added it to the blog post. Happy clique-breaking!
  • Deana, a good reminder (that I'm just now in January of 2010 reading!). Always good to give one's self and others a kick in the pants and some rationale to network outside of one's clique or comfort zone. It's SO important, and I like that you note some actual tools to do it with, too, such as TweepSearch. (I like recommendations that include specifics, as you did, not just vague "you should" posts.

    Trey Pennington (@treypennington) makes a similar point about what we're reading and mentally digesting, in his "Out With The New, In With The Old" post. I'd encourage checking it out on his site: http://treypennington.com/2010/01/01/out-with-t...

    Thanks for the reminder - and Happy New Year!
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